Episode 20 - What Jake Would Say To His 20-Year-old-Self

After the usual high/low, Jake shares with Brett about what he would say to his 20-year-old-self.

Key Points

  • So many men, especially young men, are moving through life without a real awareness of their inner world

  • Every man needs to hear that he is seen, loved, and that it’s going to be okay

  • Women don’t have the answer to the deepest desire of a man’s heart

  • Character matters more than kingdom; change the heart not just the behaviour; get below the surface 

  • Don’t take yourself so seriously and have fun

Discussion Questions:

  • What struck you from this episode?

  • What would you say to your 20-year-old-self?

  • How would you have reacted to have heard that you are totally seen, totally loved, and that it’s going to be okay?

  • Where might you need to develop character instead of kingdom?

  • What is one way you could “get below the surface” of your heart?

  • What are some ways you have fun? 

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Episode 19 - What Brett Would Say To His 20-Year-Old-Self